Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lying In Chat Rooms

1. In chat rooms of specific interest, one effective way of finding out if a person is lying would be to ask the person very pointed questions about the area of interest. If the person fumbles or gives vague answers, then you do not have to waste your time on such a person.

2. Another thing that you could do is that from the moment you first make contact, jot down whatever details the person chooses to reveal to you and in subsequent encounters, nonchantly question the person about the details. If there is a contradiction in the two details then you can be sure that the person is lying.

3. Ask the person seemingly general questions but which in fact should have a very definite purpose, for eg. ask the person what he/she is looking for in a relationship. Note down the answer. After two to three encounters, again repeat the question and see whether the two answers match.

4. You could try pretending that you have chatted with the person before and innocently ask the person if he/she is such and such person (make something up) and try offering compliments to the person like, "I really enjoyed chatting with you the other day. You were perfectly charming..." and so on. If the person falls for cheap flattery like this, then obviously he or she makes it a hobby to chat with people under various identities.

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