There are few topics that are best for the initial small talks so that an intimacy is not developed and at the same time, you do not have to struggle for matters of common interest. You can talk about the weather, sports, movies, music and even food.
But at the same time, it is in bad taste to discuss about religion, politics and family matters in the initial stages. You can crack jokes but dirty jokes are an absolute no-no, at least in the first few talks.
Once you have talked more than once or twice and you feel comfortable with the person, you can give the person your e-mail address but remember this is the first step towards virtual intimacy, so you have to trust your instincts. This takes things out of the public chat rooms and into the private inboxes.
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