Meeting Face To Face

Once you have started talking over the telephone, then the relationship has already taken wings, there is no reason to postpone a direct meeting. But wait, there is no need to push it and you should not sound over anxious to meet this girl or guy. Let the decision to meet evolve over a number of telephone calls. But there are certain things that you can bear in mind before you really meet.

The Rendezvous

It is not advisable to invite someone home before you have really met the person. It is better to choose a public place preferably somewhere with plenty of people around, just in case, you know.

That is why most couples prefer to meet in a restaurant over lunch or dinner. There is one thing about having food together. When people sit together and have food together, They get to know a lot about each other.

Table manners tell us a lot about a person's upbringing and background and you can learn a lot about a person by observing him or her eat. Another thing is that warm food has a wonderful effect on the human mind. It releases all those digestive juices and sets tongues wagging. People loosen up a lot, especially after a glass of wine or two.

So, when's the best time to meet up? The first thing you should do is that you should be clear about the time. Evenings are tricky times to meet. If you have dinner together, then there comes the posibility of dropping the other person home.
You can't just accept a ride and walk away after being dropped without inviting the other person in. Then one thing will lead to the other and then the inevitable is bound to happen.

Lunch time is the best time because in the daytime, most of us are busy with work and can just spare an hour or a half for lunch. So you can always leave on the pretext that you have to get back to work or something like that.

Take care to be at the arranged spot on time, you certainly do not want to keep a person you are meeting for the first time waiting. Dress appropriately for the occasion, keep it simple but at the same time,it should be something that looks good on you.