Here’s a little secret: Women like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. It’s true, confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages. That applies for online dating, as well as, dating in your real world.
Once you have joined an online dating service, most often you'll find there are a lot more men than women and that men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world. It’s a "tradition” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.
Remember, confident and interesting does not translate to cocky and self-centered. It’s important that you let people know in your profile that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things, not JUST sports, for eg.
Another line you should never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. Yes, the lady hopes you are but she will be the judge of that, so don’t insult her intelligence. Remember, exude confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking for, or she will find you.
Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.
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