Many people might be worried that what if their first date does not work out and wonder what should they do? Well, the answer is simple, repeat the whole process again!
Do remember that this is a chance to find the partner for life, so we might have to grow many plants before we get the right harvest.
If that one person doesn't work out, do not lose heart. Only the lucky ones get the right pick at the first go itself. For the rest of us, we just have to keep trying till we succeed. It should not be that you just flipped for the first guy or girl that came your way. Take your time, give yourself some breathing space and then make the right decision.
Nobody can force you into making a commitment. It should be completely your choice. Of course, if you get the right cues and something deep down inside tells you that this is the right person for you, then what are you waiting for, go ahead and show the green signal.
But on the other hand, if someone is trying to force you into making a commitment and you feel hard pressed, gently try to break away. All you have to do is put your foot down very firmly and tell the person that you need more time.
However,it is not good to keep a person waiting indefinitely. Tell the person that you need perhaps a week's time or more than that. But don't let the person realize that you are checking out other people. Just tell them that this is probably the most important decision in your life, so you just want to be sure.
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