Women in general, are terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. They have heard about the scary things that can happen and they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s wise and vital. So what can a nice guy like you do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator or a weirdo. You are just someone looking for the girl for you.
You must be patient. For instance, don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think that you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Sooner or later, she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.
A picture is worth a thousand words. Post pictures of you doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of your pictures. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.
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