Friends first

Try not to look at online dating as a prospective husband/wife hunt but as an effort to make friends. It really pays to have a lot of friends. It makes one's life richer. The best thing about friends is that you can be yourself with them. And they too can be themselves with you. We must remember that apart from being the dutiful husband or wife, your spouse should be your best friend as well.

That is one mistake that most couples make. They tend to look upon their friends and their spouses as separate. While it is ok to have your own friends, your best friend should always be your husband or wife.

It should be someone you can share your dreams and fears with, someone who understands, one who can give your hand a gentle squeeze when things go wrong and one who can brighten up your darkest days.

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